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The Call: Another One From the Same Friend

The same friend, another recommendation. A dark, exciting, multilayered story that I watched without moving a muscle.

May 25, 2026 4 min read
The Call: Another One From the Same Friend Personal May 25, 2026 4 min /personal/the-call/ My friend recommended The Call, a South Korean thriller. Yet another good movie watched because of her. A few notes on the film, on Dobaaraa, and on what it took for me to actually sit still and watch without doing anything else.

The same friend who recommended Society of the Snow sent me another one. The Call, a South Korean thriller from 2020. Thanks to her, yet another good movie watched. I am starting to think the only safe move is to keep saying yes to her list.

01the movie

The thing I liked the most about The Call was the story. It is dark, exciting, and multilayered. The plot is so interesting that you can hardly get time to distract. I watched the entire movie without moving a muscle. That does not happen often for me.

The performance was amazing. The combination of silence and music made it feel real. When the film went quiet, I sat quiet with it. When the score came in, it did not feel like background. It felt like part of the room.

02it reminded me of dobaaraa

While watching, I kept thinking about a Hindi movie I had seen earlier, Dobaaraa from 2022. The two are not the same story. But there is a thread that connects them. Both films play with the idea that the current can reach the past, and that small changes ripple forward in ways you do not expect.

The Call leans darker. Dobaaraa leans more puzzle. But sitting through The Call, I had that same feeling I had with Dobaaraa, the one where you stop trying to outsmart the plot and just let it pull you along.

03watching without distractions

I typically work and watch at the same time. A laptop open, a tab on the side, my brain connecting the missing pieces from the audio while my eyes are on something else. That is my normal mode. It is efficient. It is also a slow way to lose what a film is actually trying to do.

With this one, because of how strongly my friend recommended it, I decided to watch it without distractions. No laptop. No second screen. Just the movie. It was worth it. I saw faces I would have missed. I caught the silences. I felt the music land instead of hearing it as noise underneath whatever I was typing.

I do not think every film deserves that kind of attention. But the ones my friend sends seem to keep earning it. That, by itself, is a small reminder. The right recommendation, from the right person, is not just a movie. It is a nudge to slow down for ninety minutes and let something else hold the wheel.

Written by Nitin

Technologist and writer. Co-founded Nvision Technologies (1998) and Cask Data (acquired by Google in 2018). Working in AI and distributed systems. Writing here is how I think out loud, somewhere between Stratechery and Marcus Aurelius.

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